What five factors might foster a positive relationship? And transform your life forever? We always Google how to change our lives?

Today, I'm going to Discuss How it is possible to have a Happy Life?

I hope you are doing absolutely great we are going to learn five things that can literally change your life. You don't believe it, right? When someone says this Just how can one's life change? 

We always Google how to change our lives? 

How to work on yourself? 

How to Transform our lives?

These are some small, small things if practiced. These small things bring a huge difference in our lives.

On that note let's get into today's Article. Today I'll be discussing the five things These are the five secrets. If we get fixed onto these, we can change our lives. But, you will have to work for that. So before we get into the Article you guys should promise me that you will definitely do this for weekdays,  which  I am writing to you about.

(1) Forgiveness to others is the Greatest act of Humanity.

First: Forgiveness. Yes, today we'll take paper and pen right now, immediately after this Article sit with paper and pen, and write the names of all the people who hurt you or did you have a fight with someone? Are there any people against whom you have held a grudge? Write their names on the paper, and if you want, write what was your issue with them, and what did they hurt you exactly? Or some unset thing, those unresolved issues must have remained inside you, write it on paper, write it all out Say it like I forgive them completely or I don't know they said that in the circumstances of that thing. What was going on in his mind that he hurt me? But I chose to forgive me, I forgive you, now when I talk, it does not mean that you forget that someone has done something wrong to you, or forgiveness does not mean this. You are not considering that by doing something wrong to them, they must have done something wrong, but forgiveness is for your healing, why would you want to start the new year with old grudges? So, till today if anyone has ever hurt you, just vent it out and let it go, please? A few days ago I was talking to someone, he was talking about a grudge 8-10 years old. He's telling me word for word about a friend's fight, it means you understand that even after 8-10 years, he has exactly that picture in his mind, it happened like this, it happened like that, why hold it? He could have made room for new things and let go of the old ones, 

Number (2) Forgiveness extends to both yourself and others.

• The second: forgiveness is also for yourself and others and whatever decisions you have taken in life to date, you could not complete some task, whatever disappointment you have to give yourself a tight hug and say "I have forgiven". Do it, no problem, at that time I understand it as much as I took the decision on time, it's okay, I completely forgive myself today, we will start a new beginning, forgive others and forgive ourselves. Majority of our lives we live in non-acceptance, how did this happen to me, how did I fail the exam, how did I not get that job, my friends are moving forward, how did I get left behind, there are many things to do, so forgiveness comes first. Second, take a paper and pen and write all the things for which you are insecure or which you do not accept.  Just keeps running away from them. How did this happen to me? Write all the things down after that read each line and say I accept I didn't pass the exam, I'm getting older no problem I accept I didn't get that job, I agree, my friends are ahead of me, I agree, we are always complaining, so we have not left the scope for improvement, but when we accept, now we have the possibility that something can happen now. We have accepted it ok I take responsibility for it. I agree whenever I don't accept the situation of life that it is ok now it is done now and the solution is there to accept wherever you are. Say I completely accept myself wherever I completely accept my life situations and the magic starts to happen from there when you.

Number (3):- Positive Mood

Learn to uplift yourself. If something happened in a day in your life don't sit in the same mode, there was a girl in the workshop. She said you know mom has been in the workshop for four days and I am very happy for the last four days, I told you one thing in the workshop, believe that you will decide your decision as soon as you wake up in the morning, today I will be very happy, now the whole day will be happy Staying seems like a big task, so what can you do that today, I will be happy for half an hour, now we will see the rest later, means for half an hour anything will come.

Let's be happy for another half an hour more Let's be happy for one more hour Used to be half a day like this set would have been half a day so now I think the half day will be spent in a good mood why waste the rest half? So let's be happy for another half too. At the start, you have to keep a conscious effort to uplift your mood. But once you do it your momentum sets and then you stay the cheerful majority of the time. I told you to be happier more time. Should you be happy even 51% off day, very soon good things will start happening in your life, do it only then you will understand its meaning. 

Number (4): - Avoid talking about your issues

Don’t talk about our problems, we love our life's problems, someone

tells us his sorrows, we say that you are not the only one, you are not the only one, we tell more than you,

there is nothing in life about problems. Talking about problems does not change them.

So why talk about problems? Please try for seven days not to talk

about your problems and not to complete any negative sentences don't do. Do it for a week and see if you like it.

and yes, if you like it, then continue, if you don't like it, then don't continue it. It’s okay, then from now
on, immediately after this Article is read, you will not talk about any problem
in your life, let's put it on hold, we will be happy for only one week, let's
see What happens?

Meditation:-

This is very important now when it comes to this
we must have heard many times we should live in the present moment if we are happy
everything in life is in the present moment how to live in the present moment? So many
things happen throughout the day Yes, how to keep the mind calm and second
thing, when we reach somewhere, you are going from scoot, car, anyway, after
reaching your destination, we turn off the engine, but this mind is never
turning off. Even when we are sleeping, our mind keeps on running and when we sleep at
night, the last thought that we keep in our mind keeps roaming our mind the whole
time, so whenever we spend the night fighting or If we sleep in a depressed
mood in a useless mood, you wake up in the same mood
in the morning, so before going to bed you have to make sure you are meditated. you are meditating, it is a simple thing, now
you do not feel meditation, what to do, how to do meditation, how long To do, what time to do before sleeping
at night, nothing to do I will give you a suggestion of a meditation video
in the description box which I do. Sit before sleeping with your earphones and listen to it it is a 36-minute video and if you
Can't afford to invest 36 minutes all day. If you still can't afford 36 minutes
at least listen to half of it. Listen to it peacefully for 15 minutes and go to
sleep in the morning, try it for a few days, All the people who did this in the workshop felt so good and so stress-relieved, so give it your time. Please tell in the comment section all
these things that I have told so far, if you have followed, how did you like the experience, that will encourage other
people, and those who are listening to this for the first time, then I have assured you that you have to try for
seven days so you start meditating immediately from today, I would like to give in
last but how to uplift your mood so it was final law paper I had a lot of syllabi left out. Before the final exam I was really stressed out at 9 PM now so that how will
be the syllabus will happen I was in tension and anxious but in the attempt which I did not clear I thought of one thing that I have always given the exam after being stressed
out. Once we will give the exam, we will be happy,
let's see what happens, I thought always, it must be a mess. Now I am in tension so it will not work. I
picked up my earphones picked up the phone and plugged in the earphones and
went to the terrace listening to good Punjabi music 10-12 minutes I
started feeling good I said this and in such an elevated mood I go to my room. I
danced really well in my room and in 15 minutes my mood was so good that I
again studied with full confidence. Switching my mood was in my hand. So this
was my energy shift. I used music and dance to shift my energy although I am good a good dancer.

Since I live in a village, I have observed numerous issues between the wife and the husband.

There are only two ways. We need to decide which of the two ways to use. One is about the people who take away our happiness. Those people should change.

Once they become fine, my life will be heavenly. Husband says, "The day my wife changes her habit, my home will become heaven on earth." The wife replies, "It would be even better for you to give up your wrong habit. I will then have no need to get upset. 

That is when our home will be heavenly. "Does this happen? When the person changes, they will be in heaven. The second option is that look at their behavior If we learn to think right even then there would be heaven at home. Which option is easier? Is the other person changing, or are our thoughts changing? Is it easier that them to change? Or is it easier for us to change our thoughts? We are constantly trying the difficult option today. We want this person to change, that person to change. How many people should change? But if we simply learn to change our way of thinking Then our relationship with everyone will become perfect. Worship teaches a beautiful way That the relationship between any two people We believe both of them are involved in creating that relationship. We believe both of them are responsible for issues in that relationship. We also believe both of them need to contribute to reviving harmony in that relationship. But spiritually teaches us that even if one of the two creates wrong thoughts, then the relationship starts falling apart. And even if one of the two starts thinking right then a lot of issues start getting resolved. It doesn't need two people. Only one of them needs to change this thinking because if my relationship with you is not cordial If I have started thinking wrongly about you My energy starts radiating and reaches you. If you do not take care even your thoughts about me will start becoming negative or wrong. So I will be thinking negatively about you and you will do the same about me. This keeps continuing even if we are speaking nicely to each other. How many of us know how to speak nicely to someone, but not think nicely about them? Do we know how to do it? How many of us know how to do it? This depletes our energy. When our thoughts, words, and behaviors are different from each other We say, "It was wonderful meeting you, keep coming." But we think, "The next time she calls, I will tell her I am busy. She is so boring." Don't we do this? When there is a guest, we insist, "Please take your seat. You have to have lunch with us here today."  And because we offered, they sit down and agree to have lunch. So now we think, "I just told her casually, how could she immediately agree?" We think one thing and speak something else. This habit depletes soul power. It sends 2 messages to that guest. One message is the energy of our thoughts, and the other is the energy of our words.  God says that the first quality we need in order to be happy always Is truth and inner cleanliness. This means, what we think inside and what we say or do outside need to be the same. Any soul which is different inside from what it projects outside, cannot be happy always. Because such a soul accumulates a lot of different qualities of thoughts in the mind but speaks sweetly in words.

Ok so this hope this Article helped you, it's my humble request to you give it a try, even if you do not believe in things at least give it a try. Give a try to all these things at least for seven days and I'm really sure about it, whenever things worked for me,

Happy New Year. Take care.